Comments on: I don’t know what to say http://sleeve.wordpress.com/2006/11/15/i-dont-know-what-to-say/ Mon, 19 Nov 2007 00:52:54 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Jess http://sleeve.wordpress.com/2006/11/15/i-dont-know-what-to-say/#comment-15 Jess Sat, 18 Nov 2006 03:41:32 +0000 http://sleeve.wordpress.com/2006/11/15/i-dont-know-what-to-say/#comment-15 Hi; Thank you for the words of encouragement you left on my blog - after having a long week, to say the least, it's nice to know that people are reading and caring. I can't express how I empathize with you - although I've never miscarried, I have lost three grandparents in a year (two slowly, one too quickly to even wrap my head around), and experienced numerous other losses in that time, small and large. I made a conscious decision to not celebrate falsely to appease others, but instead just endure. And, when joy returned, it was welcome. More welcome than if I'd pretended. So, if you feel that blogging about this, while it may make others uncomfortable for a moment, is good for you, then do it. I wish you all the best. Hi;

Thank you for the words of encouragement you left on my blog – after having a long week, to say the least, it’s nice to know that people are reading and caring.

I can’t express how I empathize with you – although I’ve never miscarried, I have lost three grandparents in a year (two slowly, one too quickly to even wrap my head around), and experienced numerous other losses in that time, small and large. I made a conscious decision to not celebrate falsely to appease others, but instead just endure. And, when joy returned, it was welcome. More welcome than if I’d pretended. So, if you feel that blogging about this, while it may make others uncomfortable for a moment, is good for you, then do it.

I wish you all the best.

]]> By: Anonymous http://sleeve.wordpress.com/2006/11/15/i-dont-know-what-to-say/#comment-13 Anonymous Thu, 16 Nov 2006 03:12:12 +0000 http://sleeve.wordpress.com/2006/11/15/i-dont-know-what-to-say/#comment-13 I am so sorry to hear about this....there is no way for it not to hurt, even though you are looking on the bright side of things. I am sorry, also, about the loss of your mother. I lost mine some time ago and I still miss her loads. Here's to 2007 coming soon! SP9 I am so sorry to hear about this….there is no way for it not to hurt, even though you are looking on the bright side of things. I am sorry, also, about the loss of your mother. I lost mine some time ago and I still miss her loads. Here’s to 2007 coming soon!

SP9

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